"Attitude is the way you mentally look at the world around you. It is how you view your environment and your future."
It was a normal Friday afternoon rush hour traffic and Bill was driving on his way home from the office. He was patiently waiting for the traffic lights to turn to green when the car, a white sedan, behind him started incessantly sounding it's horn. He sensed that the driver of the white car wanted to overtake him. Annoyed by the driver's impatience, he thought of giving this driver a lesson. The white car moved beside his car to make an overtake maneuvering move. But instead of allowing the driver to complete the maneuver, Bill sped up to be slightly ahead of the white sedan. And for a few seconds they were in a sprint race. Neither driver wanting to give in.
Then the inevitable happened. An on-coming vehicle directly in front of the white sedan came into view. The driver of the white sedan had no choice but to step on the brakes and let Bill go first. But it was a bit too late. Bill heard a crash. The on-coming vehicle clipped the side of the white sedan. Bill slowed down to look at his rear view mirror. Both drivers from the colliding vehicles look okay as they got off from their vehicles seemingly free of any bodily injury. Feeling a sense of victory, Bill couldn’t wipe the grin off his face. “That will teach that lunatic a lesson. He deserves it” he told himself.
A few more minutes and he was in front of his house. As he was opening the garage he saw Virginia, his wife, rushing towards him. She was trembling and her hands drenched in blood. “It’s Jenny” she said. In between sobs,
Upon seeing Jenny’s limp body, all Bill could do was let loose a loud whimper. Tears flowing down his cheeks, he knelt and held his daughter’s lifeless body close to him. Within minutes Dr. Peters came in and examined Jenny. “I’m sorry…It’s too late, there’s nothing else I can do…. Her head must have hit this rock lying on the ground…” uttered the doctor. “An ambulance should be here shortly. Can’t stay any longer as I have to rush to another emergency” he said as he ran towards his car….. a white sedan with fresh collision damages on its side.
"The belief that one's own view of reality is the only reality is the most dangerous of all delusions" - Paul Watzlawick
17 Comments:
It's a sad story..Bill must have been even more devastated. Had he just given way, even if he is pissed off, maybe his daughter could still have been saved. It's true, sometimes we tend to get annoyed instantly, not knowing the story of the other person. Every action has a reason behind. Well, sometimes, we just learn things the hard way...
By Bluegreen, at 4:28 PM, November 07, 2005
Wow. That's certainly something to think about. If I was Bill, I would've let the other car pass. It's not as if I was on a race. Ah well.
By Gabeprime, at 5:21 PM, November 07, 2005
Right on the button KU...
There are other angles in evey perspective, one cannot absolutely conclude that his own view is the the only view....and it all affects other situation as well....
Good day! and keep on.....
By Flex J!, at 5:21 PM, November 07, 2005
Nice post, KU. A good one to start the week.
By jinkee, at 5:55 PM, November 07, 2005
Hi KU,
Reality bites.
Have a good day!
-Jack
By Anonymous, at 9:41 PM, November 07, 2005
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By Anonymous, at 11:15 PM, November 07, 2005
kakalungkot naman nitong story na ito. i must admit na sometimes, ganyan din ako. there was even one time na i was driving in BQE sa NY, the guy even flip me off kasi hindi siya makalampas sa akin. actually, that was the last time i did that kasi, we almost collided onto each other. geesh!
thanks KU for posting this story. have a great week ahead!
By Anonymous, at 11:16 PM, November 07, 2005
ako pala yung nagdelete ng previous comment. may mali kasi. sorry KU
By Anonymous, at 11:17 PM, November 07, 2005
its sad. but these things do happen in real life.
there was an accident in the US before, a drunk kid was driving too fast, he collided with an oncoming car. 2 ladies in the other car, one died on the spot, the other seriously injured. the drunk kid later on found out that the person who died on the spot was his mother. he is now is jail for this.
let us all just try to be safe!
By JO, at 2:27 AM, November 08, 2005
i wonder what would have happened had the doctor came sooner?
is the kid bound to die that day?
would she had avoided the accident if mom was around and not let her go to the tree house unattended?
it's twilight zone written all over.
moral of the anecdote: just be good 24/7. easier said than done i am sure.
By UNCLE FOTO., at 3:52 AM, November 08, 2005
Sad story. The father must've felt somewhat guilty for what had happened. Ahhhhh....lots of what ifs....
By Unknown, at 7:42 AM, November 08, 2005
bluegreen,
"knowing the story of the other person". that's right. we shouldn't be quick mto make judgements until we know their story.
geejay,
nice to hear from you.
flex j,
that's true. we are not aware of it but our actions affect other people's actions and their actions will in turn affect us one way or the other.
jinkee,
thanks
jack,
have a good week!
des,
glad you didn't do that again. drive safely and have a great week you too.
jo,
i heard about that story. it's really sad.
air milikay,
lots of what ifs. be good. don't be naughty, be nice, because santa's coming to town. hahaha
rhada,
for sure bill felt guilty for he was quick to judge the other driver without knowing why the driver was such in a hurry in the first place.
By Anonymous, at 8:47 AM, November 08, 2005
mga taong sarado ang isipan na akala sila ang pinamakagaling at laging tama at laging ayaw malamangan. yan ang pinakaayaw kung makausap at makatagpo pagkat wala ka sa kanilang mapapala kungdi kahambugan at panlalait. Dahil sa kanilang pagmamataas di nila alam na lalo nilang pinababa ang kanilang imahe sa nakakarami at pati mga kasamahan nila ay pinahahamak din ng kanilang kapapalaluan at pagmamagaling.babalikan at babalikan din sila ng kanilang kataasan at kung anong taas ng lipad siyang lakas ng lagapak.
By RAY, at 11:10 AM, November 08, 2005
Halo Ka Uro nice post!
Throughout life, we record each and every experience in our subconscious mind. For the most part, we are unaware we have stored these experiences away in the filing cabinet of our mind.
May we always remember to count our blessings and to cultivate gratitude as well as attitude, a positive one that is!
By Anonymous, at 11:22 AM, November 08, 2005
I'm sure sising sisi si Bill...yun nga lang, ang pagsisisi laging nasa huli :-(
By Anonymous, at 5:54 AM, November 09, 2005
Very tragic...but true. Yep, reality bites.
Hope i can be more careful and forgiving.
Nice post fafa!
Dops
By RAV Jr, at 10:11 AM, November 12, 2005
hello, KU, i feel sorry for Bill but then he is not alone. most of us, admit or not, gets overwhelmed by emotion - particularly anger or sadness - driving us to do something unreasonable. the moral lesson of the story should be instilled in our minds - WE EACH VIEW THE WORLD DIFFERENTLY.
By bing, at 7:37 PM, November 12, 2005
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